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Turns out, of course, that you are your very own knight in shining armor, and this is your road map to a happy ending. Having an orgasm during sex used to be hard work, like ditchdigging hard. Regardless of how tireless or well-intentioned the men and occasionally women were, things generally went something like this: But every orgasm took so much time an hour-plus and energy immeasurable that afterward my partner and I would collapse.

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So I decided desperate times called for desperate measures: Enter my no-fail DIY technique. As we were having sex, I shyly slipped my hand southward to stimulate myself, and held my breath to see how it would go. Was this like tye your date at arm wrestling—just not advisable, even if you were more than capable?

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Yet even with such an otherworldly chemistry, I only occasionally had an orgasm with. What's up with this, Hto would wonder, confused, each time it didn't happen—I'm as sensual as they come. It hawaii teens naked dawned on me yet, the correlation between my emotions and my ecstasy.

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Fast-forward two sons and three lifs of marriage later. Funny how fully committing and peeling back emotional layers free up the real orgasm muscle, the brain. The more routine yet connected our relationship became, the more frequent and outrageous my big O. Today, it's not just that I trust him; I've also dared to trust myself—to step out on faith, to give my heart to another, to let hot Adult Singles stop for the best orgasm of your life believe.

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Nothing worked. The pain—a sensitivity so intense that any physical contact was unbearable—was always. Finally I told my gynecologist.

She gave my clitoris a quick once-over during my annual, said things looked normal and told me orgasm issues were common for women. Ruling out a physical issue left me wondering why I wouldn't allow myself to feel pleasure.

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One day I looked in the mirror and thought, If I can't love this, who can? I began exercising, changed my thinking to This is me; take me or leave me' and eventually grew to love my butt, legs, belly and boobs.

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